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My childhood was a little, well a lot, different than most. My parents, who met while attending college in Oregon, decided to protect us from the rest of the evil world, and moved us to a very remote cabin miles from Fairbanks, Alaska. So remote that we didn’t have electricity, running water, or an inside bathroom, not to mention radio or television. Now, that sounds tough for the kids, but think about potty training three kids all about two years apart in an outhouse located several yards from the house in deep snow! Or, imagine hauling water from a creek nearly a mile from your house on a toboggan using six 5-gallon jugs with three kids piled on top! You guessed it, we never talked back to mom!

Our mother worked as a reporter for a public television station doing stories on remote villages, even more remote than ours! In fact, they were so remote that they could only be reached by airplane. In many cases, she was the only Caucasian ever to set foot in some of them. She flew in on their supply planes with cameras in hand. The villagers were surprisingly accepting of her and taught her to sew and make mukluks, and filet fish by touch without looking. That was always an amazing party pleaser, and she never left any bones in them! My brothers and I always wore parkas with fur trim and mukluks. We weren’t the coolest kids at school, but we stayed warm. Mom also read to us every night by candlelight. My brother’s favorite books were Robinson Crusoe and The Swiss Family Robinson, but I’ll never forget the entire series of Little House on the Prairie. I think she might have read it twice, actually. I still have the torn and tattered books.

My father was, and still is, a wonderful bush pilot and former hunting guide who made a life trekking across the Brooks Range in search of sheep and caribou, counting fish, and radio collaring wolves. Unfortunately, I wasn’t given an opportunity to hunt with him. My brothers fondly cherish the memories of their successful sheep and caribou kills, however. Mine wasn’t the kind of family where complaining was even close to being acceptable, so although I would have loved to go, I never mentioned it. My parents divorced and we moved to the Kenai Peninsula, eventually to the property where my mother’s family homesteaded back around the 1940s with a beautiful underground spring fed lake. We used to kayak and swim and play on that lake all day in the summer, and the loons sang us to sleep with their beautiful songs. It is a gorgeous place where my mother still lives and I love to visit.

My mother remarried a man who trapped for a living. I remember always having something dead hanging in our kitchen. He used black powder guns and usually cleaned them right before dinner. Being the least bit squeamish also never went over too well in our household! We usually ate dinner with a half-skinned coyote or wolf carcass hanging next to us in our small cabin that by dinnertime smelled very similar to rotten eggs! This time we had electricity, and although we had a television, we barely got one channel with tin foil covered rabbit ears. We (tried to) watch Little House on the Prairie every week, and that was the only show we were allowed. I remembered some of the stories from the books mom read when we were little, and I loved watching it. I read some of the stories to my little girl, but she didn’t get it like I did.

I miss Alaska for a lot of reasons, but I decided to raise my family in Oregon. I met my husband, Matt, while we both worked at Nosler Bullets. He was the Director of Ballistics at the time, and also handled most of the customer service calls. He was the guy who always walked around the plant asking everyone if they’d killed anything lately...no sense pussy footing around about it! I was the Executive Assistant in the office, and dressed up for the job. I know I didn’t look anything like someone who would answer, "Well, as a matter of fact, I just shot a deer last weekend!" Not everyone at Nosler hunts, and very few of the girls in the office did. The requirement is simply that they be okay with it, and no animal rights activists should apply. I could tell by the excited look on his face, he wasn’t expecting that answer from me. Then he found out that I grew up in a cabin in Alaska and my dad was a pilot and hunting guide, and my step dad was a trapper. Matt trapped and sold fur while growing up, back when it paid off better than it does now. He paid for his first year’s tuition at Gonzaga with his trapping money.

We spent a lot of time together after that, beginning with a "first date" pheasant and chuckar hunt...when I tripped over a hot wire and fell flat on my face! Matt never laughed, although his friends did. The details of that are a separate story all together! I’ve been seriously hooked on hunting ever since, and we love hunting together more and more every year.

My daughter is twelve, and she got her first, very own .22 for her birthday. She’ll be taking the ODFW Hunter Safety course so she can get her first deer next fall. She spots them everywhere now, but shoots only at targets and pop cans. Her favorite shirt is a Sneekee t-shirt that reads, "Girls shoot better".

Matt and I still get so excited at the site of big bucks and bulls that our hearts pound so loud we’re afraid we might scare the critters away. The thought of helping our kids get their first deer and elk is almost overwhelming! Although we take several guided hunters for deer and elk every year, we traditionally reserve opening weekend of mule deer season just for the four of us. Our son is one, and doesn’t remember going last year, but he hunted deer and elk with me safely tucked away in my tummy and was born less than a week after elk season. I got a smaller bull than normal that year. This year, his first and favorite word was "Buck". He was being packed around by Matt with his earplugs in when I shot a gorgeous deer. He was so excited, "Buck" was all he said the entire rest of the day, and ever since! Bulls are beeeeg bucks! The photos are adorable because he never stopped smiling and laughing. He has three rifles of his own already, gifted to him by different hunting friends, and wears almost every camo outfit Gap came out with last year. They released their camo line just in time for him! We both agree that we’ll support the kids in anything they choose to do, but we kind of doubt we’ll be attending any ballet recitals!

Matt and I both write about our adventures, but seldom share our stories with anyone outside our family and closest friends. I was introduced to WomenHunters.com by the womenhunters@yahoo groups, and was instantly impressed! My reasons for deciding to publish some of my writing is to share my experiences with other women in an effort to help increase their skills, and therefore, confidence. I meet men all the time who say they wish their spouses liked to hunt like I do. Come to find out, a lot of them would like to, but they feel a little intimidated about hunting with the guys, and nervous about safety issues. I went through that, and have finally overcome some of the obstacles involved. If I can empower anyone by teaching some of the skills I wish I had before, I will reach my goal! The rewards I’ve experienced are phenomenal. My favorite is the increased confidence I have in myself. Of course, an increased sense of direction rates near the top of that list, too!

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